Jean Descole (
scientificflair) wrote2012-09-14 09:05 pm
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006. Anonymous Text
[It's quite frankly surprising how many questions and things regarding relationships tend to come out once there's no accountability attached; Descole's been watching this go down for the last two days, and kind of hating himself for the fact that he isn't immune to it.
He hates text, normally; he doesn't like the lack of tone involved, and he doesn't like being unable to read faces or gestures, either. However, in the spirit of anonymity...]
Since no one can tell who we are over this thing for the time being anyway, I suppose I'll bite. Forgive me for using this as a space for venting my own personal issues, but we all seem to like discussing feelings here, anyway.
[NOT. THAT. HE'S BITTER OR FEELING DUMB ABOUT THIS OR ANYTHING.]
How does one tell the difference between someone being interested, in the romantic sense, and someone being interested in you platonically?
And just to head a few sarcastic individuals off - yes, I know that I sound like I've lived under a rock since puberty hit. There's a reason this is being done now.
He hates text, normally; he doesn't like the lack of tone involved, and he doesn't like being unable to read faces or gestures, either. However, in the spirit of anonymity...]
Since no one can tell who we are over this thing for the time being anyway, I suppose I'll bite. Forgive me for using this as a space for venting my own personal issues, but we all seem to like discussing feelings here, anyway.
[NOT. THAT. HE'S BITTER OR FEELING DUMB ABOUT THIS OR ANYTHING.]
How does one tell the difference between someone being interested, in the romantic sense, and someone being interested in you platonically?
And just to head a few sarcastic individuals off - yes, I know that I sound like I've lived under a rock since puberty hit. There's a reason this is being done now.
[anonymous text]
He's just...he confuses me. He's got this rather bizarre loathing for my employer - a wonderful man! - and he's done some terrible things back in our home world, but now that we've ended up getting to know each other I find him to be...well, very pleasant company. He's done some very kind things for me; things you....well, things I wouldn't have expected him to do for anyone, much less someone he's supposed to dislike.
He also managed to actually defeat me in a fight! I never get defeated! It was one way to get me interested in him, put it that way.
I'm just....very confused at the moment.
[anonymous text]
It's also good for confusing people in too many ways to count. Hopefully you work something out.
[anonymous text]
Sorry for just unloading on you like that; feel free to have a bit of a rant at me to even out the scales a little!
[anonymous text]
Speaking to her here has proven more pleasant than I thought it would. I've come to enjoy her company. She's an exceptional person when we don't have outside reasons to hate each other.
As you said, it's confusing. That's all.
[anonymous text]
If you really want an answer, maybe give her a call and take her out for tea! Then you can really analyse how she acts around you, and see if you can get any hints!
I hope things work out for you, anyway; I'd be interested in finding out if they do! You don't have to give me your name but mine is Emmy Altava; send me a text sometime!
[anonymous text]
Even if I don't end up contacting you again - we'll see how it goes - I do appreciate the advice.
[anonymous text]