Jean Descole (
scientificflair) wrote2012-09-14 09:05 pm
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006. Anonymous Text
[It's quite frankly surprising how many questions and things regarding relationships tend to come out once there's no accountability attached; Descole's been watching this go down for the last two days, and kind of hating himself for the fact that he isn't immune to it.
He hates text, normally; he doesn't like the lack of tone involved, and he doesn't like being unable to read faces or gestures, either. However, in the spirit of anonymity...]
Since no one can tell who we are over this thing for the time being anyway, I suppose I'll bite. Forgive me for using this as a space for venting my own personal issues, but we all seem to like discussing feelings here, anyway.
[NOT. THAT. HE'S BITTER OR FEELING DUMB ABOUT THIS OR ANYTHING.]
How does one tell the difference between someone being interested, in the romantic sense, and someone being interested in you platonically?
And just to head a few sarcastic individuals off - yes, I know that I sound like I've lived under a rock since puberty hit. There's a reason this is being done now.
He hates text, normally; he doesn't like the lack of tone involved, and he doesn't like being unable to read faces or gestures, either. However, in the spirit of anonymity...]
Since no one can tell who we are over this thing for the time being anyway, I suppose I'll bite. Forgive me for using this as a space for venting my own personal issues, but we all seem to like discussing feelings here, anyway.
[NOT. THAT. HE'S BITTER OR FEELING DUMB ABOUT THIS OR ANYTHING.]
How does one tell the difference between someone being interested, in the romantic sense, and someone being interested in you platonically?
And just to head a few sarcastic individuals off - yes, I know that I sound like I've lived under a rock since puberty hit. There's a reason this is being done now.
[this is why he likes you.]
However, suffice it to say, our interactions have changed quite a bit over the time we've spent here.
To answer those last two questions, I have no idea regarding the first, as I can't be sure she would say anything, especially considering our history. I suppose my answer to the second would make itself plain depending on how the first resolves itself.
[what for basic decency?? and Responsibility but still]
Then I suppose this may be repeating what you already feel, but I would not rush anything. If she is interested in you and isn't outright indicating so, she may have her reasons for wanting to hold back, especially with a past such as the two of you share. You yourself have your understanding of the situation confused enough by that very past. Take time to work it through.
[...the rest of this post speaks for itself tbh]
[LIKE...POSTING HERE SOMEHOW ISN'T STUPID...]
Either way, I certainly don't intend to rush into it, no. I've never been the sort to do that anyway.
[...unless he's mad, then all bets are off.]
[y o u n g s t e r s. . .]
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Strange responses aside.
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[The people that reply to him aren't as, uh, out there...]
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Either I'm cursed or I just manage to inadvertently "ask for it" every time I open my figurative mouth.
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All things come and go. Perhaps this is just precedent to a stroke of good luck.
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It's not a bad thing, just unusual.
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[....actually it is, he's just trying to lighten the mood]
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[The longest pause, then a second message.]
I appreciate this, by the way.
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You're more than welcome. After the Pokemon, it's this being able to meet new people so easily that I love most about Johto. I'm glad I was able to be of help.
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While I realize this is violating the spirit of the entire exercise, might I have a name through which I can contact you later?
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A pleasure.
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